My own story of abuse
I was 11 years old and excited to join the basketball team at my Catholic school in the northwest suburbs. My parents thought nothing of the coach taking a particular interest in a group of us and offering extracurricular activities. This is how he gained the privacy he needed. He continued to abuse us for over a year, but we never told anyone. This man went on to abuse many more boys, and only much later did he spend any time in prison.
These are the kinds of memories one buries away. Decades passed before I could speak them out loud. I spent those years filled with the guilt of wondering if I had invited my own abuse and the shame of not speaking up sooner. I did finally find the courage to come forward. With a caring church abuse attorney to guide me through the process, I was able to pursue my case against the Archdiocese. When I did, I felt a huge weight was lifted from me.
I can’t imagine how many others still carry around the same weight. If you’re one of them, I urge you to hold your abuser and the Catholic Church accountable – for your own peace of mind, and to stop them from abusing others. As an experienced Chicago attorney who represents church abuse survivors, I can help. If you've experienced abuse from the Archdiocese, I encourage you to reach out.
These are the kinds of memories one buries away. Decades passed before I could speak them out loud. I spent those years filled with the guilt of wondering if I had invited my own abuse and the shame of not speaking up sooner. I did finally find the courage to come forward. With a caring church abuse attorney to guide me through the process, I was able to pursue my case against the Archdiocese. When I did, I felt a huge weight was lifted from me.
I can’t imagine how many others still carry around the same weight. If you’re one of them, I urge you to hold your abuser and the Catholic Church accountable – for your own peace of mind, and to stop them from abusing others. As an experienced Chicago attorney who represents church abuse survivors, I can help. If you've experienced abuse from the Archdiocese, I encourage you to reach out.